That ARThletic Girl
Kim. 23. Trying to make art and fitness collide. :)

that is quite amazing indeed! but did you ask yourself that question on anonymous? :D
Thanks but why would I do that? Or do you do that yourself? Send yourself messages, I mean. :)
Monday, August 20, 2012
you need to realize something, no one likes seeing hate. they dont like seeing you get hate or you giving hate. and theres really no need for it. really, what do you gain from posting the hate you get? maybe you'd get a little out of it if you were funny, but you're not, just mad. i can tell you what you lose, though: support, followers... people dont follow this blog to see people get mad at you and you get mad at people. just motivate people, is it that hard? off anon so you dont have to post

You need to realize something, too: Getting hate is a hundred times worse than seeing someone get hate, so pardon me for ruining your pretty dashboard by replying to messages which I refuse to swallow without standing up for myself. I’m not just posting the hate I get, I’m replying to it, clearing things up, defending myself. You think I’m mad when I reply to these messages? Well you fucking hit the bull’s eye. I don’t know about you, but when I wake up in the morning and read mean messages in my inbox, it doesn’t make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, it just makes me mad because I know I didn’t do anything to deserve hate. Why do I even get hate? If it’s because people think I’m popular here, they can’t be more mistaken.  Trust me, I’m not part of the popular clique here and I have no desire to be, so don’t waste your breath hating on me for something you think I am or have. And really, did I ever come across as that type of person who frets over every word she posts, worrying about whether she’ll lose followers over it? Did I ever give you the impression that I’m blogging just to amass followers? I don’t think so. I’ve been using Tumblr long enough to know that it’s not all about your follower count. Which is why I can tell SO MUCH about you when you started talking about losing followers, or to be more specific, about what I should do to hang on to my followers. 

Just motivate people, is it that hard? Seriously, who the fuck do you think I am, your motivation vending machine? I hate to break it to you, but I’m a real person and I have struggles of my own. I’m not here just to give motivation, I’m here to find it because I need it myself. So telling me to shut up unless what I have to say will motivate people makes you an asshole in my book.

Of course, I could’ve made my life easier by just replying with this classic: IT’S MY STINKING BLOG. I can post whatever I want because in my blog I’m the king and queen both, just like everyone else is in theirs. I can post a picture of a hairy man in a sports bra and a turban, and there’s absolutely nothing anyone can do about it. In fact, I think I will.