Sometimes I get really ashamed by the mean thoughts that pop up in my head but immediately afterwards I feel proud for keeping them to myself and not deliberately hurting anybody.
I hate hearing a new song and liking it and then finding out later that it’s Chris Brown’s because I’m so hellbent on hating that abusive little shit.
“You’re not fat. You have fat.”
I got a lot of messages like that when I called myself fat in a selfie I posted a few days ago. I appreciate the intention, but try as I might I can’t bring myself to care about the message simply because I don’t get it. What’s so wrong with using the adjective fat? Is it so bad that we have to skirt around the truth and structure sentences so we can distance ourselves from it as much as we can?
Fat is just a word. It’s an adjective and a noun. We all have fat but not all of us are fat, which is why saying I have fat is not the same as saying I am fat. I understand that the whole ‘you have fat’ idea is trying to achieve something positive, but I think it’s also contributing to our fixation on the word fat and reinforcing the negativity we have come to associate with it. Fat is not an insult, but in the end it’s up to you if you’ll take it as one. But here’s what I suggest: If you’re fat, be comfortable with saying you’re fat because I bet Dany’s dragons that it’s not the only thing you are. You’re smart, funny, talented, brave, thoughtful, kind, loyal, and a dozen other things that having a fat body won’t change.
P.S. Anyone who thinks fat=ugly clearly hasn’t seen Rebel Wilson in leather.
GPOY- Still Fat Edition.
I still can’t stop thinking about Pod and the brothel girls since that last GoT episode. What did he fucking (no pun intended) do?
I NEED TO KNOW NOW.
Happy birthday to my favorite sister (by default)!
I want you to know that the whole time you were wishing I’d lose weight so we could share clothes, I was wishing you’d develop better taste in books and TV shows so we could share fandoms. It took you more than a decade to catch on, but hallelujah I think it’s starting to happen! So to celebrate that (and your birthday. As an afterthought.), here’s a cartoon you in a wholesome threesome with my favorite characters from the show that made it happen. Now if only you would start reading ASOIAF….
but I did a Brazil Butt Lift video and I couldn’t stop laughing at the instructor’s accent. I feel like he’s doing it on purpose and that’s what makes it funny to me
My Polar FT4 is just over a week old but there’s already a huge ass scratch that looks suspiciously like a crack down the middle of the watch face because my 11-month old cousin whacked it with a TV remote while I was holding him. If he weren’t so darn cute I’d throw him out the window. >:(
just a healthy one, but I’m more than okay with that!
I’ve been eating unhealthy amounts of healthy food since yesterday because I couldn’t get satisfied no matter how much I ate, but after I had two of the cupcakes my mother brought home tonight it’s like someone turned off the consume-everything-in-sight switch in my head. Proof that sometimes you just gotta go right ahead and give in to that craving.
